Do's and Dont's for a newly married girl in inlaws

Its Mrs. SK khan here. I am living with my in laws. I am facing many problems here. I can not share my problems with any one. That is why I thought to write it somewhere.  First when I came to this houe I felt like I will adjust easily. But After few days I realized that it is not easy to adjust and make your pace in inlaws. There are many people who bake bites and ditch you in disguise. They enter in your life as your friends and take all of secrets and count on your deficiencies. They inquire about your likes and dislikes to misuse that information . They take that information against you in front of elder of the house. I think every girl should be taught to not to disclose her secrets and deficiencies in front of any of the member of your in-laws. You have to be very careful and conscious while doing any new thing in new house with new people. Every girl should be mentally prepare for not to get appreciated for her good works, good deeds, and virtuous nature. You will always be ditch for these qualities and you will be taken as a loser and a fool of the house. Rather you need to be smart, well dress, and not be talkative to get a little positive image. But not really .. lolz.  You have to open your eyes every time. Do not sleep in day time. This is really a very big negative point which will be used against you. And your enemy(nund, jithani, devrani)  will have the chance to gossip about you in your absence. Every girl should give maximum time to her mother in law. She is the only person who saves you in trouble. If you have good terms with your mother in law, your negative points will be taken as positive.